Dating for one year and no i love you


so the last few days I’ve tried to play it cool and not be all clingy or needy acting (even though frankly i feel like he should just WANT to send me messages, I shouldn’t have to ask for attention at this point. or maybe I shouldn’t need it at this point? idk) while i watch him all over facebook, instagram and snapchat. He says i need to be self reliant. i’m on board with that but…..since we don’t see each other in person much, and if he’s not going to text me much, then I don’t feel loved for quite a long time. and if i seek it out i’m “needy or clingy” but the fact is my love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch. he’s trying to teach me a lesson about being needy by pulling away but that doesn’t feel like love to me. and i don’t know how to be a loving person to someone if i get nothing back, except in person. and let me be clear. he loves me immensely and wants a long term future, i do believe this, but i also believe i came along when he didn’t expect it and fell in love with me before he was ready so maybe he’s scared. anyway….i’ll be seeing him tomorrow night for new years eve and don’t know if i should talk to him about this, or ignore it. and if i should talk to him, what do i say? because i don’t want to start an argument. we had the most magical 5 days of our relationship last week so this is all super confusing and frustrating. all i’m asking for is a few love texts like what he used to send. i’m not asking for him to be a different person or drive here more. any thoughts or help is MUCH appreciated. thank you. xo December 30, 2016 at 12:29 pm #588637 Reply
Ash “He says i need to be self reliant. i’m on board with that but…..since we don’t see each other in person much, and if he’s not going to text me much, then I don’t feel loved for quite a long time. and if i seek it out i’m “needy or clingy””

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Dating for one year and no i love you

Dating for one year and no i love you



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